There are cases in which parents who leave their children in charge of a babysitter fear that they have more preference for their caregiver that for themselves, the truth is that you should not lose the north, the fact that the child gets along with the babysitter does not imply that he moves his preferences.
The babysitter is an important figure for the child, she takes care of him while the parents are not there, the emotional bond established between the child and the babysitter is important, because thanks to him he can somewhat alleviate the lack caused by the absence of parents Having affection for the babysitter does not imply that you have less towards parents.
Psychologists show us the importance of the figure that represents the nanny, in fact in some studies children who have babysitters have been asked to draw their families and most have painted the babysitter in the family painting. In fact it is important for a nanny to show her affection for the child, to take care of her, to take care of her, etc. You have to worry when a child is not comfortable with your babysitter, when those emotional bonds are not established, it indicates that something is wrong. But if not, you have to be happy, in addition, adequate emotional ties between the child and the babysitter provide greater self-esteem in the child, enrich your personality much more, it helps to tolerate the absences of the parents with much less anguish and also Children become much more sociable.
It is not necessary to think badly if a mother returns home and the child ignores him or starts crying, it is not because he is wrong, it is a way of communicating how much he has missed his mother. It is not necessary to see as a rival the person who takes care of your child in your absence, since in reality it is someone who is helping you and is attending to the needs of the child when you are not.
The most important thing is that if for any reason you need to leave your child with a babysitter, remember that when you return home you must devote your child a time that is exclusively for him, talk, play, bathe, etc., and always show him what You love him so much. You will see how you will understand how much you want it and can better compensate for those absences.
