Childbirth is one of the most exciting events, for me the most, that a mother lives. The memories of that day are etched on fire. Labor, birth, see the baby's face for the first time, visits. For better or worse, childbirth never forgets.
If there has been something negative, our selective memory erases from our mind the pain, disappointment or suffering to stay with the positive, the birth of our baby.
However, regardless of whether we are left with the good and that it has nothing to do with the birth we have had with how much we love our children, many women have the feeling that the birth could have been better.
Precisely because it is a very special moment in the life of a woman (and her partner, of course) is a memory that remains deep within us.
For the birth to be pleasant and remember it as a happy moment in all its facets it is important that the woman feels confident, at ease and respected.
There are three premises that cannot be missed so that childbirth is a memorable event.
- The correct choice of center: Find out about the protocols that are carried out in the center where your baby will be born so you will ensure that the delivery is attended according to the way you have chosen to give birth.
- To be informed: Information is the key to having a good birth. The difference between what we believe in childbirth and what a birth really is is information. Some women have unrealistic ideas about childbirth, so it is essential to be informed about what happens in childbirth and how you want to live.
- Positive attitude: when the woman is relaxed and trusts herself and the staff that attends the birth, it is a large part of the path traveled. Feeling that controls the situation and that their needs are respected is essential for women to feel at ease and childbirth develops favorably.
As you know, every birth is a world and every woman lives it in a different way, but what is clear is that childbirth never forgets.
For me, my deliveries have undoubtedly been the three happiest events of my life. I will never forget the faces of my daughters at birth, their hot body against mine and the immense happiness I felt in those moments. And you, how do you remember your birth?
