Always tell the truth It is an important principle that the child must learn, this learning begins with ourselves. Whatever the problem is, very small or more serious, we should never keep our son out of the news. The death of a relative, the loss of employment, a possible break between father and mother, etc.
In life there are fundamental aspects that should not be left out in their learning, it is a way to assimilate the reality of life, even in this way we teach them to learn not to ignore reality, that they are part of the family and that without Doubt, he counts too.
Always telling the truth to our children represents helping them to have a characteristic and stable personality trait, not to develop aspects such as selfishness or absenteeism in problems. Although it is true that we must have tact and evaluate the ability of the child to understand always trying to transmit the appropriate information at his age. An important event is necessary to transmit it, since the child through what he sees, deduces and can perfectly confuse some state of concern with an anger, can also confuse our seriousness with a possible rejection towards him or our sadness and melancholy with a possible Threat or fear The child can let his imagination fly and totally change reality.
The information that we seek, will help the perception of reality, but first of all, we must always accompany the information transmitting tranquility, security and confidence. It is also necessary to differentiate some aspects that are not of the child's concern, such as any problem of sexual intimacy or other confidences, since it is not about turning the child into a gossip, we must understand that at certain ages the child does not He knows how to shut up and therefore we must always assess how and how much information we will give him.
