In the book 'Meditation for pregnancy', its author Akasha Kaur, a prenatal yoga teacher, advises couples not to report the pregnancy until after the first four months. What do you think of the idea of wait 120 days to announce pregnancy?
Appeals to caution and patience to live the first stage of pregnancy in the intimacy of the couple, without emotional pressures from the rest of the family and friends.
There is a reality, which is that many pregnancies end in loss, it is believed that one in three, so there are couples who prefer to wait a reasonable time to ensure that everything is going well.
On the contrary, there are others who prefer to share their happiness with family and friends from the first moment. Of course, it is a personal decision that depends on many factors such as one's own personality, and of course, the moment one is living.
Returning to why wait 120 days to socially communicate the news of pregnancy, the book gives a transcendental justification:
“On day 120, the woman is honored with the arrival of her son's soul, since during the first four months, the baby has been forming, growing, maturing little by little so that when the time comes, she is completely ready to receive his soul. "
During these first days of gestation, accelerated hormones are vibrating throughout your being, modifying your body, your mind and your emotions and it becomes the most important stage of pregnancy, since the soul depends on the vibration in which you vibrate What will you attract?
Great importance is given to emotional state of the mother, it is normal, but we can also think that the mother will be surrounded by love and good vibes from her relatives when she knows the news.
As I said before, I think it depends on each one and the moment they are going through. I announced my first pregnancy with all the illusion and within a few weeks I had a miscarriage. Should I have waited longer? May, but it was my first pregnancy, I was very excited and wanted to share it with the closest family. I also liked having their support when the loss occurred, there are couples who prefer to live the duel in privacy and is absolutely respectable.
In fact, when I got pregnant again and the next two pregnancies, given my previous experience, I only told my mother and my sister (and my husband of course). The rest, just after the first 12 weeks. And not so much for the rest, but for my daughters, because they were too young to understand that the little brother we expected would no longer be born.
What do you think of the idea of wait 120 days to announce pregnancy? How long have you waited to communicate it?
